Badr/Thora.
Yeah, but being in a position to get out some aggression if she needs to could go a long way. Could also be a risk, though. If she's mad enough.
Hard truths? Our world is often less nice than we grow up believing it to be. At least, I think that's how it goes most places where kids are. Donnersberg softens the truth of reality a little less than other countries, I think.