ANON
I think that is where I am struggling most, if I'm to be honest. He and I are very similar in many ways and I find it hard not to get hung up on those similarities and not focus on what makes it different. It doesn't help that much of this just fell into place recently, so it's all a bit new and I'm having something of dream related emotional whiplash.
But it does give me hope that, if I keep reminding myself that we are different, I might be able to process it all a bit better, at least eventually.