BEA | TOBIAS
That's fair, and I get that, and I am the absolutely last person who will push you to tell me things you aren't willingly giving. I hope that people can see me for who I am and not my experiences, though, so I try to extend that courtesy to others, as well. Our pasts don't retroactively change us, they shape us as we grow. So who we are right now can't be changed by the knowledge of what made us these people.