LGBTQ
Aw, babe, I wish I could give you a better answer, but my girl is basically 100% me with bonus Earp ancestry and revenants.
But I think that, though it's easier said than done, you shouldn't worry. It's weird and it's awkward, but you know who you are, and nothing about him changes that. And if someone dreaming about Arwen shows up and demands anything you're not willing to give, then they don't really care about you anyway.
And I will legit hufflefuck them up if they try to bully you into anything, or make you feel bad about wanting what you want. 😘