yes! i just found out that a couple i graduated with got married, and that a whole bunch of people who are my age have babies and still have a relationship with the father - which is good! but it's so weird to me, probably because i keep thinking of my own perspective and knowing i'm way too young/not ready to handle that much responsibility. on the other side, though, i have a couple of friends who were dating for four years before they were engaged, and they're staying engaged until at least january of 2011 while her fiance finishes school. they're only a couple years older than me and, idk, they've been planning on getting married for a long time now. it just seems like they've really thought about it. but what do i know, haha.