kid, i've slept longer than you've lived (tuscarawas) wrote in divierto,
this is what i meant about the thoughts thing. if it's a passing thought about someone, then i think it's okay because i've had those thoughts as well out of pure curiosity - even about people i'm not attracted to. my brain just goes there sometimes.
but if they are seriously/constantly thinking about this person, then i would at least consider that a problem. how can you be involved in a relationship if you're thinking about someone else?