For background, my boyfriend and his cousin both have the same name. A girl we both know updated her fb status to say "come on toma... i know you're coming through this" and I was like awww fuck. What does this mean? And she told me he got into a really bad car accident, like he was in bad shape. Ensue me freaking out. I don't have his mom's phone number so I can't found out if he's okay. And then it turned out that it was cousin, but the girl didn't know that. I have never been more scared in my life.