kid, i've slept longer than you've lived (tuscarawas) wrote in divierto,
also be wary of advice to tell your dad. you don't have solid proof, therefore he can easily hide his affair if you do tell your mother. also, he's currently having an affair while she is sick. do you really think he's interested in her feelings and telling the truth and being a "good guy"? his actions have proved otherwise.
it's best to tell your mother (hopefully with proof) so that she can blow this shit out of the water. you need to tell everyone you can, in fact (anyone who matters, that is - like the other woman's husband if there is one and bosses if work is somehow involved) because nothing kills an affair faster than being exposed.
also, your dad might try to bribe you or convince you that you should not tell her. people in affairs are not in their right mind.