this may sound like a weird question, but my boyfriend and i have been arguing over sex lately. not the actual act of having it, but how we get to that point. i have a pretty high sex drive and while he does too he thinks that i talk about sex/ask about it too much rather than just "going for it". he says it makes him feel pressured and turns him off when we are talking about having sex or something, like me saying i want to rather than just physically going for it, etc. basically he told me it would be a lot better if i was flirty with him, etc. instead of directly asking for it.
so basically my question is, how do you act around your guy when you are horny before any actual physical/sexual contact takes place? my problem is that i'm pretty shy about being out and out sexy, etc. but i guess i need some direction/help in being cute and flirty, etc. with him.