it's not always pretty, but it's real (iwannabe) wrote in divierto,
do you pay rent, bills, etc.? i don't know how old you are, obviously 18+, but i think whether or not you're dependent on your mom changes things a whole lot. i'm going through a similar circumstance w/my mom right now except i've been dating a guy for 6 months, he's 8 years older, i'm 18 and in school 3 hours from home where my b/f lives. i want to spend more time with him and be able to make my own choices, but my mom pays all my bills including my school so she does have say over me. we have had a lot of screaming fights, etc., but if she pays your bills she does have a right to have an in put in your life. if you pay for everything i'd say fuck it and go!