1000 different versions of yourself (smog) wrote in divierto,
that sounds like a lot worse than a cold to me. have you seen a doctor?
personally, i wouldn't want to be friends with someone who, when she gets mad, spreads lies around to everyone she knows. if you don't have an issue with that, then of course it's your right to be friends with her if you so choose. but maybe you could try to see it from sam's side... she's probably facing a lot of humiliation because of what ruth said about her. would you rather support your best friend from childhood or someone you don't know as well? although i'd also personally be kind of mad that she said you were making bitchy moves. if she had a problem with your actions, a calm discussion about it would have been more productive than both of you.