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self indulgence is such a hard habit to break (
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would you be upset if your SO talked about his/her ex a lot?
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amour__x
2008-04-01 07:10 pm UTC
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Yes. It annoys me and kinda makes me feel self-conscious.
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keyofeflat
2008-04-01 07:10 pm UTC
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unless they were still close and he talked about her in that "oh my best friend" sort of way, then most likely
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yes
2008-04-01 07:11 pm UTC
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yep
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hyz
2008-04-01 07:12 pm UTC
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it depends on the context. if they were in a bad relationship and still recovering from it, i wouldn't mind. if they're talking about something fun they did together, or stories like that, i really wouldn't mind.
but i guess if they were like "omg i miss x so much, x was the best, x x x x" then it might bug me a bit.
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saveferris
2008-04-01 07:27 pm UTC
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I guess it really depends on the context in which he would be talking about her. I mean I can understand explaining stories about times they had together, but not a lot and that would upset me. If they were still close friends then I wouldn't mind.
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amorsito
2008-04-01 07:28 pm UTC
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depends on what theyre saying.
My ex boyfriend would bring her up a lot earlier on in the relationship until one day I was just like.. "I don't understand your need to bring her up at least once a day since I started dating you, if you like her so much why did you break up with her?" He said he didn't realize he was doing it and meant no harm, after that I hardly ever heard anything about her. We broke up for other reasons.
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sovietkitsch
2008-04-01 07:46 pm UTC
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he talks to one of them pretty often but it doesn't bother me. she lives on my hall and next door to me and we're friends. his ex that was he in love with and dated 2 years doesn't speak to him so i dont worry about that, but he told me he missed her a few weeks aog and it was kinda awkward and i was a little bit worried...
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pirateships
2008-04-01 07:47 pm UTC
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probably.
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ex_losthighw413
2008-04-01 07:50 pm UTC
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Definitely depends on the context and what it was exactly he was saying about her. I think talking about her excessively in a positive or negative manner might get me worried.
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ex_annihilat354
2008-04-01 08:06 pm UTC
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a lot? yes.
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monkers
2008-04-01 08:11 pm UTC
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Like everyone else said, it depends on the context but normally I wouldn't mind either way. I mean if they were like, "omg I miss him/her" a bunch of times then I would be pretty upset. If they were still close friends, I definitely wouldn't mind since I'm best friends with one ex and close friends with another so they're bound to talk about them some time.
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ex_gandalf997
2008-04-01 08:22 pm UTC
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Yeah, unless they were still friends or something.
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howardmoon
2008-04-01 09:12 pm UTC
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Depends on the context and if it's affecting the relationship.
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westcoasts
2008-04-01 09:54 pm UTC
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if it wasn't pertaining to 'i hate that bitch' context, then yes.
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ex_neuroscie729
2008-04-02 12:28 am UTC
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yes yes yes
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ex_shitfaced738
2008-04-02 12:42 am UTC
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Nope
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