[1] I never know what's going through their minds either. [2] Sometimes they I could try to ask my father, but I'm sure he'd tell me that it's none of my business and that they'll deal with her how they see fit. [3] They may see her attachments as weakness, but look at what we've gotten out of her. Look at what she's done for us. They can't say they would have been able to do it themselves.