My point of this whole thing is: if we didn't think he was enough of a ~DISAPPOINTMENT~ for that because we have forgiven him and he's still our brother and we still care about his nerdy, irritating arse, why would we think they're disappointments for anything they're trying to do for the Order just because we might not like it?
Or at least, that's the point I was trying to make to Oliver. He's been super sensitive about every argument we've had since he and Percy revealed they were a thing. Welcome to the family, Oliver - we're Weasleys. We're stubborn, loud, hot-headed Gryffindors. Get used to arguing. We love each other regardless.