Charlie
I mean I'm still not thrilled that he did it but I don't hold it against him. I think you can forgive without forgetting. But that's why we were so angry at the time. He left us, temporarily disowned us, and now seems really paranoid that we're going to do the same when the reason we were all so furious in the first place is cause that's something we'd never do - and never thought he'd do either.