Because instead of asking, you made generalised statements based on nothing but your own conjecture. So, yeah, of course no one wants to open up to you know. You judged before you ever bothered to listen.
I'm going to chalk that down to your immaturity, because if you genuinely believed that I was Imperius'd or a hostage, or a weird combination of both, then you wouldn't attempt to insult me for no reason other than that I've pointed out you're in the wrong.