Part of it's a morale message and before we get ahead of ourselves I don't mean go slaughter their families. That said I don't think we should stop hitting them like we did. From what it sounds like the main argument was that there were a lot of non-Death Eater targets around when we dropped explosives there. If I'm reading that right.
So I think what we're looking for is rules of engagement. For my part I don't have a problem at all walking up to them and kicking the shit out of them, and dragging them to whatever isolated hell-hole we find. But I think this is going to have to be an actual, solid discussion here cause it's a tough issue. Maybe the consensus isn't what's off the table for Death Eaters, but what we're not going to do to those who aren't so to speak.