Remus
I don't want to either, which should make it simple, but I guess it's starting to dawn on me that we're not just making decisions for ourselves anymore, but for another person who won't be able to decide anything for himself for a long time. And that's really kind of terrifying, especially when no options seem especially great at the moment.
Ugh, I'm sorry. Just talking to someone else in the midst of this same decision brought this all to the surface.