Leon/Caroline
I don't think it will get to that point. And there is definitely a time and a place to look at reconciliation, but considering what Angelina and Alicia have lost, it's perhaps too much to expect of them to attempt to step back and see things from a purist point-of-view, and for my husband as well, for that matter. When the time comes, they are very unlikely to be the ones to lead that discussion, so I wouldn't preoccupy yourself with that. That discussion will be undertaken by the people who are able to.
Well, very little short of threatening my husband and my children will upset me these days, and as we're in very little danger of that, you can certainly talk to me whenever you need to, and if you feel comfortable doing so. I may not always agree with you, but I will listen.