Dante/Violet
During wartime, something small is generally more tasteful. Maybe we can stick to closer family and friends for the guest list? I never really wanted to invite distant relatives I've only met a few times in my life to my wedding anyway, and now I have a perfect reason not to without being rude.
March would be all right if it's later in the month and a smaller wedding. Before May would be best, I think. An empire waist dress will hide any baby bump I have by then so that people just focus on the event.