Dante/Violet
If we chose to get married, we could hire a nanny and make traveling part of the job description. If we don't get married, we could take turns traveling while the other took care of the child. There's no reason this has to stop either of us from having successful careers and interesting lives.
I think it's important to promote unity and peace, and for people to listen to different perspectives and try to reach a mutual understanding. Things will never settle down if there aren't people actively trying to de-escalate things.
I think the Malfoys are probably classy enough to not publish anything in the Daily Prophet without approval from you and your father.