I'm going to try and keep this as neutral-seeming as I can, without trying to be offensive or anything. Saying that right now, just in case. There is no offense meant here, just genuine concern.
Flik. I know I'm right in saying that I'm not the only one growing somewhat annoyed with the way you're playing. While it's true I have vices with other players as well, there are some things that have been making me wonder...even debated dropping the game. However, I haven't, but this still concerns me greatly.
The way you mod and play is worrying. Mod or not, it does look and seem to many players that I talk to frequently that you're bending the rules a little too much, just so you can have the situations you want occur. For example, the relationship between Heero and Duo. While I must admit, I don't know their canon very well, others that do have voiced concern that you're playing too much into it. Some of your characters' reactions to situations as well, such as Dick/Nightwing and the mention of anything vaguely like a gang, and the ongoing issue with the Air Gear crowd and that seeming to be gang activity.
The Air Gear issue in particular annoys me, one instant in particular. The arranged match between Fort's Agito and Pup (mini-Sora). The match was arranged, with set rules and guidelines as per the AG canon. Nightwing's harsh reaction to it was slightly over the top seeming. The two riders are well known for being powerful and not wanting to have civilians in the way. It's highly doubtful that either would actually go out and deliberately cause harm to the NPCs either, which Nightwing seemed to be indicating. It looked OOC to an outside view, including to those who know the canon.
But I won't go any further into that. Best save that for those who know the canons.
The other issue I have is with the current curse. I understand that it's a Random Curse, a free for all. HOWEVER, with Hisoka changing bodies with Zuko, I seem to recall that you yourself have come down on players before for even suggesting that they were planning to do so. The body switch alone might not be as bad, but the complete personality switch seems highly unfair and against the rules. There isn't a Zuko in game to switch with. A body switch like that seems to indicate that there'd be, what. Hisoka wandering around somewhere in the Avatar world? And the knowledge gained for him from such a curse comes pretty close to being OOC knowledge.
You're also overlooking things that are as clear as day to the rest of us. Several muses I could name, some of which I do know the canons of, as a matter of fact, are acting OOC. However, you appear to be overlooking this, even approving of it because either a) the players are some of your close friends or b) the character interaction it could bring with your own muses. The first reason in particular seems to be allowing people to get away with a lot of things.
It's incredibly unfair on the rest of us that you seem to bend the rules this way. Perhaps I'm a coward for not logging in and posting this on one of my character's journals. But what I say is the truth by my reference. The game is dying in some ways, and there are some that believe it's mostly because of yourself. Myself? I believe it is you in part, hence this post.
Please. Take a step back and look at what you're doing. I want this game to stay alive. I can't stand seeing it die because one of the mods doesn't appear to be doing what she should be.