addisonsthename (addisonsthename) wrote in dalton_rpg, @ 2012-06-23 01:33:00 |
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Entry tags: | ! thread, @ character: addison parker, @ character: archer kennedy |
Who: Addison and Mr. Kennedy
What: Talking about a new fact Addison just found out about Casey aka the 23 year old he met at Babylon who he's been talking to non-stop
Where: Archie's place
When: Friday, June 22nd
Rating: It's pretty innocent, but I'll say NFSW just to be extremely safe. There is talk of fetishes and a consensual relationship between an adult and a minor. But really, it's nothing bad. Just guidance-y talk from Mr. K!
"So, uhm, Casey told me something about himself, and it's not like it's bad or anything, it's just...kinda strange."
"What did Casey tell you?" Archie asked, looking up from the papers he was reading to focus his full attention on Addison. "Define 'strange'?"
"Like, it's not bad or anything, but he said that he wanted to be honest and tell me now rather than later," Addison added, blushing slightly. "He has, uhm...a fetish."
Archie couldn't help the little relieved smile at that. He had expected something a lot worse. "You're right, fetishes aren't bad. It is a sign of trust, though, that he shared his with you. Most people say nothing about their kinks and fetishes to their partners for fear of scaring then away. What sort of fetish did he say he had?"
"Well, he's totally not weird about it, cuz I couldn't even tell or anything, but..." Addison's cheeks were now a pretty pink. "He has a fetish...for uh, feet."
A foot fetish. That was about as innocent and unthreatening as a fetish could be. Archie smiled again. "That's fairly common, as fetishes go, and nothing that should alarm you at all. Do you understand what he means when he says he has a foot fetish?"
"Well..." Addison sounded rather unsure, but Archie's smile and reassurance comforted him. "Not really? I've never met someone who has one. I don't really get it."
"It means he really likes feet," Archie explained. "It can vary from person to person, but on the whole, to him, a set of bare feet gives him a sexual thrill similar to a set of bare breasts--for a straight man, at least." Archie shrugged. "Some people are legs people, some are butt people, Casey is apparently a foot person."
"Okay, one, please never say the word 'breasts' again," Addison scrunched his nose. There were just some words that he never wanted to hear a teacher to say, and that was one of them. "And two," he added, glancing down at his own feet. "They're just feet. How can they have that effect on people?"
"Would guy rather I say 'boobs'?" Archie asked with a grin at Addison's face. "Because I think I'm going to use out again soon. As for how they have that effect on people..." Archie shrugged. "A woman's chest does nothing for me, yet other men ogle and drool. Different strokes for different folks."
"I would rather you didn't say anything like that," Addison replied, looking just a little bit disgusted. Unless you were a health teacher, teachers had no business saying that. "So, then, when some guys really like a girl's chest, it's the same with Casey, but with feet?" He was starting to understand it, but it still didn't quite made sense to him. "What's so great about feet?" Though he was sure he could ask a straight man 'What's so great about a girl's chest?'.
Archie shrugged again. "What's so great about makeup?" he countered. "You can try to explain why you love it so much, but you probably won't be able to convince me to wear it as often as you. It's the same way for Casey and feet. For some reason, feet tick a 'yes please!' box in his mind."
Huh. In hindsight, it made a lot of sense. What made it any different than say...someone who really liked legs or ass? Who decided what body parts were acceptable and not acceptable to like? "Okay, I think I get it," Addison nodded. "So then, will being with him be any different now that I know?" It wasn't some life changing confession, but it still would feel at least a little different around him now that he knew.
"On the whole, no, but there is something I want you to be aware of, and I think he wanted you to be aware of it too." Archie was a little more serious as he said this, his grin fading a few notches. "Say you're watching a movie with him, and he's giving you a foot rub. Ordinarily, this is nothing big or inappropriate. However, because of his fetish, he will be deriving sexual pleasure from the experience. Does that make sense? To go back to the straight guy and..." Addison didn't want Archie to say any breast-related words, so Archie just mimed 'giant boobs' with his hands, "analogy, to him, it would be like giving a chest massage to a topless woman. With your past, this could be a concern. If you're not comfortable giving him that sort of sexual pleasure, you need to let him know, and be conscious of what you wear on your feet around him. On the other hand, with your past, this may be a good thing, a way to be sexual with him without it being sexual to you. If that makes sense. I'm not sure how you feel about it, and you may not even know yet. But if it makes you uncomfortable, you need to tell him to stop, okay?"
Addison nodded. "Yeah, I know that. I mean, he seemed really nervous and worried when he told me, because he said he didn't want me to feel uncomfortable around him." he shared, thinking back to their conversation. "So, I think he cares about how I feel about it." The way Archie put it, it did seem like a good idea. He could please Casey without having to actually have sex with him. The idea of that made him feel like less of a sexual invalid.
"I've been told by some female friends," Archie said with his smile growing again, "that dating a foot fetishist means you always have someone eager to give you foot rubs without asking for one back."
Addison couldn't help but laugh. "I guess that's a plus then," he said, glancing back down at his feet. He supposed they were alright looking, but maybe they looked better in the eyes of someone with a foot fetish. He wasn't sure.
"Always look on the bright side," Archie advised with a sage nod. He noticed Addison studying his feet and nodded toward them. "If you want, and you feel comfortable asking him, you could ask Casey if certain things would make your feet more attractive for him." It was certainly an odd conversation, but it might be able to get Addison testing the waters of sexual conversation without getting uncomfortable. "Don't consider anything drastic, but if a certain type of shoe or just not wearing socks or something like that makes him happy, you can consider it."
Addison couldn't help but blush again, especially when he remembered that Archie, was in fact, a teacher and his appointed guardian. He would never have this type of conversation with his father. "He told me that he likes when guys wear sandals or are barefoot. He also told me that I have really cute feet."
"Do you even have any sandals?" Archie asked, pleased that Casey was apparently doing everything correctly with Addison. He still wasn't the happiest with the thought of Addison dating a man so much his senior, but aside from the age, Casey wasn't putting up any red flags.
Addison nodded. "Yeah, but I usually don't wear them. I'm so used to wearing my sneakers that I don't think to change 'em during the summer." While most people would be dying in the heat, Addison wasn't as sensitive to the weather. He could wear all black, heavy jeans, socks, and shoes, and still be comfortable in the summer heat.
"Well, maybe you can break them out for special occasions," Archie suggested.
"That's what I'm thinking. I told him I had them and he lit up like a kid on Christmas," Addison let out a laugh. "So, I'm guessing it made him happy, which I'm glad it did. I like it when he's happy," he said with a soft smile.
"And that's good," Archie said. "And right now, he's clearly keeping you happy. Just don't let keeping him happy cost you your happiness--and don't let it happen with him either."
"I know, I know," Addison said as rested his chin in his hand, leaning on his elbow. "Don't worry, Mr. K, I know some things about this whole dating thing," he smiled. "Thanks for being so cool with talking about things like this. I know a lot of people would think this is weird."
"It bears reminding more often than not. And you're welcome, Addison." Archie offered the boy a fond smile. "I don't mind weird conversations. I'm just glad you feel comfortable enough to talk to me about these things. Even if I did say breasts."
"Yeeeeah, guidance counselors should not be saying that word," Addison laughed. "So, uhm, another weird question. Usually, on tv, people who like feet are like...into sucking toes and stuff." Addison felt almost silly saying that. "Do you think Casey is into all that?"
"Probably," Archie said, giving it some thought. "But non-fetishists like that too. That is more sexual than just a foot rub, though, so he won't suddenly stick your foot in his mouth out anything like that. However, if you do take things further with him, that may be something he'd like to do with you. If you're comfortable with it, there's no problem with letting him. Having someone lick or suck your feet isn't harmful in the least. It's a nice way to indulge a partner's kink."
"Right," Addison mumbled. TV portrayed foot fetishists as creepy old men, so it did take some getting used to on his part, especially since until now, it was his only exposure to the subject. "How do I get more comfortable with the subject? I don't want to be all weird and blushy every time he brings it up."
"The best way is just to talk to him about it." Archie said. "Ask him what it means for him since not all foot fetishes are the same. You can do some internet research too, if you'd like, but be careful with that--the internet can go for shock value."
"I do want to talk about it with him, I just don't want to offend him or suddenly realize he is into some creepy stuff or...yeah , I don't know what to expect," Addison sighed. He looked at Archie when he mentioned the internet. "If I do that, then don't be surprised if you find any weird Internet history. The internet is filled with porn anyways. I'd probably find foot porn or something, ya know if there is such a thing."
"It won't offend him if you ask with genuine curiosity," Archie assured Addison. "He'll probably be happy, if anything, that he hasn't scared you off and doesn't have to hide this part of himself from you. If he does start getting creepy, you can tell him to back off and come talk to me about it. As for porn..." Archie gave another shrug. "I don't snoop through your internet history. I figure you're a teenage boy. Porn sort of comes with that territory."
"Well, don't worry, I haven't watched porn and I really don't care to...well, not yet anyways. Maybe with Casey," Addison mused out loud. "Uh, anyways! Anything else I should know or talk to him about? I don’t want to mess this up."
"Remember that porn is fantasy sex and not really a good primer for the real thing," Archie said. "Also remember that it is illegal for him to have sex with you our sexy pictures of you. Be careful." He gave a little sigh and a little shake of his head as he looked at Addison (my little boy is growing up!). "Other than that, just keep talking with him. As long as you two are communicating, things won't get overly messed up."
"Well duh, I know that," Addison said. He had already done his research and knew what their limitations were. "Besides, I wouldn't want anyone taking pictures or videos of me like that. You never know where it could end up, and then you're screwed." He leaned his head on Archie's shoulder, letting out a sigh. "I really like him, even if he does has a foot fetish. Maybe I'll learn to like it too, so I can say that I like everything about him," he smiled sweetly. "Besides, I do have some nice feet," Addison joked.
"That's a good attitude to have," Archie said. "Wombs don't look at his fetish as a flaw. Someday, you'll discover your own kinks, and someone like Casey will be much more understanding and willing to experiment than someone in denial of their fetishes."
"That's a very positive way of looking at it," Addison said, smiling. "Positivity is good in a relationship...speaking of, I think I want to make things official, like have us be boyfriends, with the title and all. What do you think I should do?"
"At the risk of sounding like a broken record, talk to him!" Archie said with another grin for the boy. "Ask him if he feels the same way, then just start using it."