You seem to be taking this very personally, aren't you? All from a simple inquiry about working together.
Yes and all those things require time, which I was hoping to shorten by working with other like-minded wizards.
Also one can't ask for every contingency in the world, a world that has gotten a lot bigger than it was a day ago, or one would never get any research done. You may share or you may not, but then don't get all upset when people guess wrong.