"Well, I think they'll understand, given what kind of a decision it is, you know? They know you. Better than most people, I think. It's not like you've been secretly carrying on a relationship for years and hiding that from them." Jack raised a silent eyebrow at Harry, as if he was asking if Harry was in a secret relationship that no one knew about. Because that I think would be the thing people get more upset. The not sharing when you're happy," Jack passed Harry a dish of food, trading him for the salad and liking a bit of sauce off his thumb.
Jack waggled his eyebrows, "Well, it is quite a nice package, but you'll just have to distract her with something else by then. If it comes out. If you don't want it to be public knowledge, just...don't make it. Keep PDA to a zero when out in actual public. A lot of people don't have public sex lives, you know. I wouldn't think it would be that hard to do."
He only filled his plate up moderately, picking at some of the food. It was very tasty, but Jack wanted to talk more than that. "Eh, I have a brother that plays quidditch, one is a healer, another is a business and family man and the last is a decorated Auror. The surprise baby, eight years younger than the next, being an artist and someone's secretary, without any goal in life? A fuck up to those standards. I don't really care though. I like my life."