Yeeeeeah, I don't know what to tell you. There are lots of different reasons for the shame and guilt and stuff, but some people are like you and can just do it whenever. Like college students or teenagers.
You're a dad? That's cool! How many kids do you have?
I don't know! I've never talked to or seen a non-human spirit, but I didn't know that anything else but ghosts existed until I got here.