I'm so glad you like our Remus who is, yes, fantastically fucked and treading water about as hard as he can right now. And you are totally not a horrible person. Just wait until you see what we have in store on the angst train... *rubs hands in anticipatory glee* Then we'll see who's horrible.
And, dude, I don't think I am capable of writing Remus fic without at least a hint of dirty teacher fantasy! XD