It's a wonder with all the work we are assigned this summer that anyone has time to worry so much about the desire to date and attract the opposite (or same) gender. For the record: I am not an invalid. I can get my own drinks, I can pull out my own chairs, I can open the door all by myself, and I do not need a man to do these things for me. I am a grown and independent woman and I can handle things all on my own. I do not need some annoying Gryffindor plucking my books from me when I am more than able to handle them myself. I most especially do not need any of these things done when I am trying to enjoy a private meal and read over some of my work!