Well then I should hope to help you take up the banner in fight of being whoever the hell you wish to be, Love.
I know that someday I shall likely be Minister, it's obvious my path puts me in that direction, and I intend to make it an important part of my job to make sure merit, not sex or gender, is the entire basis for advancement. That Hogwarts criteria be made far more stringent, and includes marks for ambition and leadership.
And by all means, if the men around here are welcome to brag of their 'conquests', then go and brag of your own. I joke, of course, it's a bit crude in putting it that way, but I find those who mock women for being 'slutty' are often just embarrassed, inexperienced twerps who are just angry because the 'slut' didn't include them. And the ones who call foul on 'prudish' behavior, likely in the same boat but a different perspective.
We're all human, we all have different desires. Some of us are built bigger, naturally overweight; others have superior metabolisms, they're underweight, and nearly everyone desires sex in some fashion. Flaunt your individualism, do not hide from it.