I am pleased to hear that. It is a fact I most certainly agree should be remedied.
Balance is always important, though few people realize that.
Arrogance is not, but unfortunately women are still not expected to be strong and intelligent and so we are shamed for that as much as we are for being overweight, underweight, too "slutty," or too "prudish." Until that fades, it is difficult to show one's true worth.
Oh, that sounds like it will be very interesting. It is absolutely a night to be what you are not, after all.