Njall
Oi, you don't have to disclose. But if you need some support, I'm not interested in this "we might do some harm" garbage. This is the sort of smarmy talk the Death Eaters used when they were running things at home and I'm shocked, utterly shocked, to see it in your American papers.
All sorts of people are different and you can even talk about those differences without being an arse. That was just ... demonising the poor woman.