"Good. Then I won't feel so bad about interferring."
Taking a deep breath and blowing it out, Alastor took a moment to think about where to go next. Really, a little logic did wonders, no matter what people might think. "All right. Piece together for me what happened and let's see if we can't figure this out. Stop me when I have it wrong.
"Cal asked if you should get married and your exact response was what? How did you suggest other options? Did you tell him you loved him first? That you would be happy to marry him,but didn't want to pressure him? Or did you say 'no, let's find another way?"