"It can be," Patrick answered. "The way I see it, there will be people that will never understand or accept, and you need to ignore them or pretend that your straight depending on the situation. People will don't really get it, but will accept because they care about you, and people that will get it." He smirked a little. "Find those and you'll have plenty of sex."
He shrugged. "You're gay, I'm gay. I don't see why it's so weird to ask me questions. Consider it research."
Patrick drank some of his beer as he listened to Lysander speak. He smiled when he was done. "I didn't say you'd be teasing anyone. It's just that there are certain expectations. While a behaviour might be consider flirting in a pub or at a party and no one expects anything, at a club, the same behaviour would mean that you're ready to suck cock."