Consider yourself lucky. Considering that we're now family, perhaps you'd like to move to the manor. I'm sure my parents will love it.
You aren't the only one with questionable feeling about the entire thing.
I just invited to live with us. That should answer you question.
Sincerely, Stephen
PS I'd be careful in your shoes. She's talking about setting the example, and you might be next. I'd look for a husband and quickly, before she picks someone insane less than worthy.