Sirius nodded. "I know," He really did need to talk to James about that, but holy hell, kids? He'd spent most of his life imagining that he would forever be a bachelor, and he was getting used to the idea that he was married now - but children too? Things really had changed so much, and he was still wrapping his mind around the changes himself.
"It is the traditions. And I don't know that I could raise my own children the same way he and I were raised - I mean even if I had married the right woman. How could I give my children all those same traditions when so many of them are the things that hated about my family?" Not his family, his parents, he was still learning to separate Regulus from his parents.
"Regulus telling me I can't be the right sort of father, isn't going to stop me from doing what I think is best. You ought to know I am more stubborn than that." He smirked.
He shrugged at the suggestion at bargaining for time. "That might be a way to at least give us more time to come up with a better idea. But do you really think you'll be satisfied being his lover on the side if he does get married?" He asked him. "I know you don't want to think about him getting married, not any more than I do when I see how well the two of you fit together, but you need to answer that - because right now that is the most likely outcome of all of this." he sighed. "I want to find a way to change his mind, but I'm not even sure where to start."