"No I didn't forget." He assured James with a smile. "It's just surprising that even Toby could see that. I couldn't forget that."
He sighed, this was why he liked to avoid the talking because there was so much space for misinterpretation and he was trying to make sure James understood him. "No no, I know. This isn't about Allison, I know you're not." He told him quickly because that was just so far from what he'd been thinking. "But with Toby, you love you - It's easy to see that, and to see how much you like spending time with him and showing him new things." He sighed and shrugged. "I know we talked about kids before, and I know what I said then, and what you said. But this - with Toby - where does that put us, do you want to have kids?"