Sara/Tommy
We stayed away --- I stayed away because I didn't feel like Sara Lance anymore. I was a killer, a dark version of myself I didn't know how to get away from. I didn't want my family to see me again, because maybe they'd know who I turned into. I didn't want to be a monster to them, and that's what I felt like.
I had an easier time accepting my dark side. Maybe because I had Nyssa, who grew up in the darkness and still managed to have so much love in her. It's not easy remembering, but we need to own our past in order to move on.