JAMES.
I don't think it's the best way, it's just what I've become use to. Even in the last Blackpoint, I can't even count how many times I've 'met' versions of my parents, most of the time they never remembered. Now the Thor here looks like he would have had to adopt me.
I don't know what to think of them getting memories that match ours. But if there's no risk of going back like you said, made something stable will start to feel normal sooner rather than later.
But hey, a week from now also marks a year since the first time you kissed me.