I'm happy you're here, so you can have the same chance. I won't pretend like this is situation easy at first, because it isn't at all, but with time, that can be you too.
Let me help you both get started? You don't have to come to New York, and we'll give you both space if you want it, but at least let me make sure you have a way to take care of yourselves until you figure out what you want to do.