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People see what they want to see, unfortunately.
I wouldn't exert any force on Alex at the moment anyway. I'm not in a position to do so at my age and lack of actually knowing him all that well. I want to actually have a relationship with him myself rather than trying to enforce any control over his other relationships. He's an adult and can make his own decisions. That said, I'm willing to work towards accepting all of this, I just need to be able to wrap my mind around it. As for you, you aren't as dangerous as you could be, and I can handle that.