Lyle/Stiley
Well, I gotta say I think you're selling yourself short. I mean, I'm glad you feel like I've been there for you, because you've definitely been there for me, even when I was helping to keep you in the dark. But I'm also pretty sure you could handle anything the world threw at you. And still have great hair after the dust cleared.
Anyway, I have to think that if the door is really shut, there's nothing ~mystical~ tying us together at this point.
So not ignoring is good. You should totally go with that.