I'm glad you think so highly of me. I've reached the bottom of the heap, and it's slow going crawling my way back out of it. It's not going to happen overnight, which is why I would rather keep away from the family. They really don't need to see me like this. Seriously, mother would have apoplexy if she saw me now.
It's been two dates, possibly more, and in spite of my usual behaviour, I've been a perfect gentleman. I think settling down is a way off. But I tell you, if it all pans out, she will be very much worth it. No need for mother to know, a wedding could be years and years off if that's the case. She's not aware of my little problem, as such.