"What don't you understand?" Stephen wondered. "Just because you can't do it, it doesn't meant that other people don't enjoy it." He chuckled. "I'm pretty sure you could take Midori on, even without magic."
Stephen still couldn't understand what Adrian didn't get it, but he tried to explain anyway. "The training is just another way to please their master, but it's also more. There are rituals that ground a person and make it easier to get into sub space. You have to remember that these people live it every day, and training will teach them how to move, how to kneel, how to stand. It gives them a framework in their lives and makes things easier. It also allows their Doms to show off at parties," he finished with a grin.
"It really is all right, Adrian. I don't throw words around, but I understand that some things you don't get." He sighed. "Just ask, I'll be happy to answer."