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Sam Evans (mr_abulous) wrote in beverlyhills,
@ 2017-12-10 21:28:00

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alicia clark, claire bennet, erica reyes, melissa glaser, sam evans

Filtered away from Finn & Rachel
Anyone know the best way to comfort your friend when she's found out her boyfriend died, but that boyfriend is the one who told her because... he's alive here?

The whole situation is pretty weird.

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	invincible 2017-12-11 02:33 am UTC (link)
	Are you talking about Finn? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:39 am UTC (link)
	You know Finn? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 02:40 am UTC (link)
	Yeah, he's my friend. I'm Claire. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:41 am UTC (link)
	I'm Sam. Nice to meet you, Claire. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 02:43 am UTC (link)
	Oh yeah, he mentioned you. It's nice to meet you too. So that brunette is his girlfriend? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:50 am UTC (link)
	Yeah. Rachel. I guess he told her what happened, and she's taking it really hard. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 02:52 am UTC (link)
	I can imagine. But she has him here, so that's good, right? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:55 am UTC (link)
	Yeah, I guess it is. I haven't talked to Finn a whole lot, so I don't really know if that's his plan, but they were kind of a forever thing when he was still around at home. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 02:58 am UTC (link)
	That's so sweet. I didn't know he had a girlfriend. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:05 am UTC (link)
	He didn't tell you? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 03:09 am UTC (link)
	At whatever point he's from, I think they'd broken up? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:12 am UTC (link)
	Ohhh, okay. I guess that makes a little more sense. I'm just surprised he didn't even mention her. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 03:13 am UTC (link)
	We've only hung out a few times. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:41 am UTC (link)
	Okay, I guess I get that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	invincible 2017-12-11 12:52 pm UTC (link)
	I'm sorry Rachel is having such a hard time though. I told Finn that he should be happy to have a second chance here, that all his friends deserved to be with him. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	wereblond 2017-12-11 02:35 am UTC (link)
	All I can say is that they need to cherish the time they have here. I died back home as well and it was sad to find out at first. Now I'm appreciating every moment I have because this is my life now. Maybe all you can do is just listen to them like a good friend should. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:40 am UTC (link)
	That's really good advice. I definitely planned to listen, but I just wanted to know if there was anything else I should say. But maybe I'll just let her get it all out. We all went through it before, at home, but she's from the past so she doesn't remember. I'm really sorry to hear you died, though. Did your friends tell you right away? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	wereblond 2017-12-11 02:53 am UTC (link)
	I don't think there's anything you can say. Most of the time what people need more than hearing the "right words" is knowing that someone cares about them. No, my friends didn't tell me right away. I'm sure they had their reasons. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:06 am UTC (link)
	Yeah, I think you're right. Thanks. That really helps. I kind of spilled it out without even thinking about it when he answered my first post here. I was just... shocked. I'm pretty sure he hates me now. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	wereblond 2017-12-11 03:25 am UTC (link)
	Don't make assumptions. Just talk to him. If he hates you, he will tell you so and then you can make decisions accordingly. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:39 am UTC (link)
	You're right. I know that. There's just... a lot going on in my head right now. Thanks. I'm Sam, by the way. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	wereblond 2017-12-12 02:14 pm UTC (link)
	I'm Erica. Good luck with all you friend problems. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	thestrongone 2017-12-11 02:49 am UTC (link)
	Just be there for her, that's really all you can do Sam. It is a weird situation, but you seem like a nice guy and I'm sure your friend will be glad to have you. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:52 am UTC (link)
	Yeah. I just wish there was more I could do, you know? Thanks, Alicia. I hope you're right. I just don't want to let them down anymore. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	thestrongone 2017-12-11 03:05 am UTC (link)
	It can't be easy for her. To show up here and then find that out all at the same time? Poor girl. I don't see how you could. You're trying to comfort her and being a good friend. That's all you need to do. I'm sure she'll appreciate that more than you know. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:09 am UTC (link)
	Yeah. I was still trying to figure out whether I should tell her or not. She messaged me and asked me if he was dead after he told her, I guess. And I know Rachel. When she breaks down, she breaks down hard. Yeah, I think that's the best I can do for now. Just be there for whatever she needs so I will be. :) (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	thestrongone 2017-12-11 03:16 am UTC (link)
	Ouch. No offense to your other friend, but maybe that is something she should've been told in person or even after she'd been here more than five seconds. You're a good friend Sam. If you need anything, let me know. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 03:43 am UTC (link)
	I can't say much. I kind of broke it to him badly. I was shocked he replied to me when he'd been dead for years and it just all came out. He probably thought I'd do the same thing to Rachel. Thanks again, Alicia. Really. I appreciate it, and same for you. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	kind_of_slutty 2017-12-11 02:52 am UTC (link)
	She should just be glad he's alive here. That's really all that matters. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	mr_abulous 2017-12-11 02:53 am UTC (link)
	I think she will be, but it just hit her kind of hard since she just found out. She already dealt with it once back home, but she doesn't remember now, and I just want to figure out how to help. (Reply to this) (Parent)