I’m not sure how much influence I can have one night a month. She’s lost her faith and her way and is all the more susceptible to him. She surrounds herself with him and his associates and refuses to believe that because she and I are not so different, then he and it must be the same.
If you can tell your counterpart to make her see reason, please do. She likes him, and trusts him. But tread carefully. The last one made her wary.