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You really like that victorian look huh? It is cool, kinda like your dad's hou--wait a minute. Your dad isn't happy about the us thing? Legitimately?
You're still talking about him. We're still talking about him. He's not even in this conversation and he's owning it!
If we're all protecting this reality then we'll need to practice as a team, right? And ignoring the ELEPHANT in the room should be easy. There's plenty of people to practice with. I don't have to look at the ELEPHANT or talk to it or do anything with it.