Jane/Loki
No one's been rude. I'm trying to not to give an impression that I ask for or expect things that aren't my place. I'm not a queen and Thor and I aren't even married. I'm trying to behave like a polite houseguest and not ruffle feathers.
He would. Lady Sif is worried about what happens in the in between time before the smiting, which is why she thinks it's a good idea.