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You have Wanda. But only if you, and she, truly wants to be that invasive.
As for Clint, I don't know what to do for him. I was a neurosurgeon, not a psychiatrist. If he's not talking, then he might be compartmentalizing while being fixated and unable to work through the loss. That's my best guess.
I don't think any of us are trained to talk to someone going through things like this. So we're left networking. Do you happen to know anyone who might be?