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Narcissa has a BABY (born in June) (
thefairest
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2008
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09
-
14
21:52:00
Do you remember me? Well, I am
still
not pregnant, and to make matters worse, my arch-nemesis (who has very scary eyebrows) is pregnant for the
third
time. How do I stop her from ruining my life?
Thank you,
N. Malfoy
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rose_nylon
2008-09-14 09:31 pm UTC
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I fail to see how comparing yourself to a woman who seems to function solely as a brood mare makes you the lesser. There is more to a woman in life than having kids. Certainly, they can bring joy to you, but they can also bring misery. It seems to come in equal amounts.
You may have to consider the fact that you may never have a kid. It would not be the end of the world, no matter what everyone might think. If the people around you can not see this, then you either make them see it, or find new people.
And, if you are extremely desperate to get pregnant, have you tried not trying? Much made about nothing usually prevents what we are trying to achieve. Relax, let things flow as they will, and then try again later.
Honestly, I find some people's obsession with having kids completely crazy.
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