A minor conundrum
I've always had it told that girls marry up and men marry equally or, in some circumstances, below themselves. The problem is, I have spent quite some time lately speaking with my brother's best friend. We are all very close in age and from the subtleties in conversation I suspect he may have some feelings for me as I do for him. However, I have seen his house, as I go there sometimes to read to his mother who is ill, or bring her flowers to brighten the room, and I'm perfectly sure that my father would not allow this marriage at all. I don't know how I could convince him! He has never denied me anything before, but there are so many expectations placed on my choice of husband.
Do you have any advice that might be at all helpful?